Your Customer Is Not a Funnel

Your Customer Is Not a Funnel

Marketing loves neat diagrams.

Awareness → Consideration → Conversion.

But real buying behavior is messier:

  • pause
  • compare
  • forget
  • re-enter
  • ask a friend
  • get distracted
  • come back weeks later


That “messy middle” is where brands win or lose.

This is why long-term brand building matters: It creates memory structures that make it easier to choose later.

And it’s why word of mouth matters: It reduces perceived risk and speeds decision-making.

And it’s why customer-first behavior matters: Because once they buy, your delivery decides whether the story continues or ends.

As an advisor, this is how I add dimension: I connect the dots across the whole journey:

  • demand creation
  • trust building
  • conversion reality
  • retention
  • advocacy


In my next email, I will share with you the moment I hit my own wall.

BJ