Becoming belongs to the heights and is full of torment. How can you become if you never are? Therefore you need your bottommost, since therefore you are. But therefore you also need your heights, since there you become.
“I have often blamed you in my mind for treating this or that person differently and reacting to this or that situation differently from how I would have; and yet the outcome usually showed you were right. ‘If we just take people as they are,’ you once said, ‘we make them worse; but if we treat them not as they are but as they should be, we help them to become what they can become.’”
Last week, we wrote about the power of the individual customers to transform your business. The intensely-devoted customers we highlighted—the Brand Lovers—seek out like-minded individuals to form brand communities. These groups become close-knit with ties that resemble family—or in modern parlance: they become framily.
Here’s a secret: they can treat you like framily too. When we were interviewing customers for Life is Good, they spoke of founders Bert Jacobs and John Jacobs as if they knew them and spoke about their mascot Jake as if he were a real person. Jake was imbued with all of Life is Good’s good deeds and Bert’s and John’s personalities and he became an honorary framily member at their barbecues.
A hallmark of family—and framily—is doing good deeds without expecting anything in return. This can take the form of surprise gifts or surprise shipping upgrades. But, one of the best and easiest ways is simply saying thank you.
In August, BJ wrote about the power of saying thank you, and meaning it, to your coworkers. The same is equally true for your customers. About a decade ago, after shopping at Cole Haan, I received a handwritten letter in the mail from the sales associate, thanking me for my business and telling me it was always good to see me. I’ve always maintained a few pairs of Cole Haan shoes in my collection since.
Thank you for reading our blog throughout the past year.