Many brands chase growth by casting the widest possible net. More impressions. More clicks. More eyeballs. But in the race for reach, they often miss the people who matter most—their Brand Lovers.
In The Cult Branding Workbook, BJ Bueno makes this clear:
“The sole purpose of business is to create a customer.”
But not just any customer—a customer who loves you.
Who Is a Brand Lover?
Your Brand Lover is your most passionate customer.
They buy more often.
They stay longer.
They forgive your mistakes.
And most importantly, they tell others.
They don’t need to be convinced—they’re already convinced. Their enthusiasm turns them into unpaid marketers, internal motivators, and walking billboards. They’re not just customers. They’re your community.
And yet, most businesses overlook them in favor of “target markets” and generic personas. They trade resonance for reach.
Why Brand Lovers Matter More Than Market Share
When you discover your Brand Lover, everything gets easier:
- Marketing becomes sharper because you know who you’re talking to.
- Innovation becomes focused because you stop guessing what matters.
- Brand culture becomes clearer because your team rallies around a shared purpose.
You stop trying to be everything to everyone—and start becoming essential to someone.
Think of it this way: You don’t need millions of customers to win.
You need a few thousand who feel like your brand was made for them.
Ulta Knows Their Brand Lover
Take Ulta Beauty. They don’t chase every beauty trend. They know their Brand Lover is diverse, exploratory, and values both play and practicality. Ulta has built a business that welcomes beauty lovers at every stage—teen experimenters, working moms, skincare obsessives.
Instead of trying to be Sephora, Ulta leans into community, accessibility, and joy. The result? One of the most loyal customer bases in the industry.
That’s the power of knowing who you’re really building for.
How to Discover Yours
Start by asking:
- Who is already obsessed with us?
- What do they say when they recommend us to a friend?
- What emotional need are we actually fulfilling?
- What do they love—not just like—about us?
You’re not looking for broad averages. You’re looking for patterns of passion.
Don’t Build for the Crowd. Build for the Lover.
Most brands are terrified of alienating anyone.
Cult Brands focus on being irreplaceable to someone.
When you discover and commit to your Brand Lover, you don’t just get loyalty—you get clarity. The kind of clarity that shapes decisions, fuels innovation, and creates lasting impact.You don’t need to be loved by everyone.
You just need to be loved deeply by the right ones.